The Devils...I mean children on the schoolbus where Miss C comes home on, are teasing her.
They are making her life a living hell.
She tells me they hit her, they pinch her and yesterday they mushed her face in.
I have tried calming her down and telling her that acting equally violent isn't the solution.
Yesterday the boys on the bus told me in a very teasing way..."she was pulling down her pants and showing us her underwear"....
I was upset. I cried. I am worried. I asked Miss C who taught her that and why she would do such a thing.
She cried.
No one had taught her.
Her answer was: "they bother me on the bus, these kids hit me and pinch me...they bother me".
I don't know if she thinks that pulling down her pants is a way of letting them have it...or if they are enticing her to do it...
Either way. It's worrying.
So I gave Miss C the best advice I could give her:
"Tomorrow when they hit you and bother you, you hit them back...you defend yourself if no one is around to do it for you. You hear?".
It's not something I would like to have told her but:
My kid ain't gonna be bullied.
By no one.